entourage dilemma

just when I thought na nafinalize ko na ang female abays ay saka naman biglang may dinagdag... Originally, I plan of having only 3 secondary sponsors and 1 maid of honor without bridesmaid... But then my mother informed my Uncle that I'll be getting his daughter (which I only saw once) as my veil sponsor.  as in OMG! that;s supposed to be for my other cousin... haaayyzzz, I don't want then na mapahiya mama ko kaya ayun, kinuha ko narin at nasacrifice yung para sa cousin ko - good thing na lang is hindi ko pa nakakausap ng seryoso ang pinsan ko informing her na veil sponsor sya... kaya nareplace ko na agad sa isa ko ring pinsan na gusto ni Mama.... and eto pa, nagttago din ang cousin#2 ko kasi hindi ko raw sya kinuha, and she even said na she's willing to pay for her gown basta't abay daw sya.  haaayyzzz again! ayun! bigla tuloy akong napalagay ng isang bridesmaid para lang din maaccomodate sya, at para maaccomodate din yung pinsan ni Gil na lalaki na sinisingit din ng tatay nya.

Hay naku, bakit naman kasi laging may pahabol?